2006-04-12 [immortal daydreams.]: several things. but mom monitors everything on ET and shed kil me if she saw, so yeah.......

2006-04-13 [BinaryPhoenix]: shite.... o_O

2006-04-13 [Dhom]: how the hell does she mangage that....my parents have trouble turning the computer on..

2006-04-13 [Soul Assassin]: my parents used too...hell for all i know they still do. but now they never say anything

2006-04-13 [immortal daydreams.]: lol mom got a myspace, too...just to monitor me...hell she probably reads this lol

2006-04-15 [Soul Assassin]: haha they "trust me" at least to some degree. i doubt if they'd want to wade through all the meaningless shit to try and get to something worth reading :P

2006-04-15 [immortal daydreams.]: ya, well, god forbid i get privacy of some sort

2006-04-15 [Dhom]: My parents a pretty good but they like to randomly open the door when I'm on the computer to see what site I'm on. It gets irritating

2006-04-16 [immortal daydreams.]: yep. she does that. she also lieks to read my IMs, saying if im not doing anything wrong then i wont care. annoying beyond belief

2006-04-16 [Soul Assassin]: oh yes...they used to do that those too. it was spectacularly annoying

2006-04-16 [immortal daydreams.]: yeah, well...i went through my stage when i was younger, if you know what i mean

2006-04-16 [Soul Assassin]: ah i see. well everyones got their issues...some ppl more'n others. that's probably one of the only universal necessary evils....parents

2006-04-16 [immortal daydreams.]: yep. wish they werent necessary

2006-04-17 [Soul Assassin]: i dunno...sometimes they can be a good thing....like supplying money for things. :P i dunno i love mine and wouldn't wanna get rid of them but they can be a paint in the ass

2006-04-17 [immortal daydreams.]: a painted ass huh? 0.0 i dont want to get rid of them but they need to let up. almost fifteen and i cant hang out with my friends or go to the movies with a guy... -.-'

2006-04-17 [Dhom]: yeah, they sound pretty stricked.. My parents prefer the Reverse Psycology.. you know where they say "Well, if you really want to.." kind of thing.. lol. It's a guilt tripper

2006-04-18 [immortal daydreams.]: yeah. they do that, too. "well, i dont want you too, but you can if you want..."

2006-04-18 [Dhom]: it's pretty funny when you say "Well that's my choice" and then they ground you.. lol... they can't do it for too long..

2006-04-18 [immortal daydreams.]: hmph. i just hope shell let me date soon, considering i like my ex, who broke up w/ me bc we couldnt see each other. it sucks!

2006-04-18 [Dhom]: lol. Sounds like my friend's parents..

2006-04-18 [Dhom]: She's 16 and isn't allowed to get her ears pierced... now thats weird man..

2006-04-18 [immortal daydreams.]: yeah it is....its funny. moms more willing to let me get my belly button pierced than to date....-_-' top that....

2006-04-18 [Dhom]: haha... my dad said I could get a Tat but I don't want to...lol, just thought I'd ask and see the answer..

2006-04-18 [immortal daydreams.]: lol. mom has nothin against tats either.....

2006-04-18 [Dhom]: That's so weird.. I think she just thinks your too young and doesn't want you to get hurt by the world... sweet in a kind of warpd creepy way.... yet normal

2006-04-18 [immortal daydreams.]: kind of....but not really. she got ideas when my boyfriend and i (same guy mentioned above) were under a blanket with my sister if that aint twisted what is?

2006-04-18 [immortal daydreams.]: by the way, my sister is 10...was 9 at the time....

2006-04-18 [Dhom]: ok... Now I see. What do you think happend... A light bulb went off in her head and thought "My little girl is no longer a little girl"?

2006-04-18 [immortal daydreams.]: Well, yeah. She thinks all teens are the same, and you hear about teen pregnancy and everything every day...so yeah the light bulb...

2006-04-19 [Dhom]: ouch... Just be happy she's not a councillor.. my dad is. haha.. It's no fun having a fight with him because he knows all the tricks

2006-04-19 [~The~Souless~]: lol, starting an argument with my parents is like setting up a motion detecting mini gun with the barrel facing you... XD

2006-04-19 [Dhom]: I know, it seems it's rarely the other way.

2006-05-23 [I'm Bringing Glamour Back.]: hey guys....once again i need advice. i dunno, you guys are just really good at giving advice lol. my bestfriend is suddenly flipping out at me for no reason..calling me names and such....saying she doesnt want to be my friend anymore..calling my other friends/boyfriend stuff...what should i do?

2006-05-23 [Soul Assassin]: so this all happened for no reason? it's not like you guys had an arguement...or a percieved slight...or she's jealous...did you try getting her to explain why?

2006-05-26 [I'm Bringing Glamour Back.]: nope, no argument what so ever. i asked her what was going on, and she claims "nothing"

2006-05-26 [Soul Assassin]: well if she "doesn't want to be your friend" then perhaps you should move on...and find someone that cares as much about you and yours as you do about them a theirs.

2006-05-26 [†Sweets†]: i can top it, i cant date until im 18. moved out, and not allowed to marry with out parental consent

2006-05-27 [Dhom]: I know this is gonna sound parental but marriage is a pretty big thing.. Have fun while you still can! lol. Sorry, I'm a commitment phobe

2006-05-27 [Soul Assassin]: ummmm exactly why can't you marry without parental consent after 18? your considered a legal adult then yes?

2006-05-27 [Dhom]: yeah I got confused about that bit... do mean before your 18?

2006-05-27 [sweetkiss]: wow that must really stink.

2006-05-27 [Soul Assassin]: it makes sense if it's before 18....

2006-05-28 [sweetkiss]: yah

2006-05-28 [Dhom]: I hate sunday afternoons... They tell me Mondays comming.

2006-05-28 [Soul Assassin]: mmmmhmmmm i dislike mornings....

2006-05-29 [sweetkiss]: i hate mornings to unless there is a hot guy near.. lol

2006-05-30 [†Sweets†]: no, i can not date until im 18, and have moved out, cant marry without there permission

2006-05-30 [Dhom]: how long have you been going out with your bf?

2006-05-30 [†Sweets†]: 6 years

2006-05-30 [Soul Assassin]: your 16 and you've been dating 6 years. that would make you ten when you started. since we're not "adults" until we're 18 it's considered illigal in america to marry under that age. after that however (unless your religion prevents) you are able to choose and marry who you wish. unless you are unfortunate enough to live in a state who seems to believe it is ok to legislate their personal beliefs on marraige.

2006-05-31 [†Sweets†]: i live in utah, what do you think

2006-05-31 [Soul Assassin]: mormon.....good luck honey. if i was you i'd move far far FAR away

2006-05-31 [†Sweets†]: i had planed on it

2006-05-31 [Dhom]: yeah I really can't help you on this one. Not really into the idea of marriage...

2006-05-31 [†Sweets†]: its cool

2006-05-31 [Soul Assassin]: i can't say that i'm much help either, mainly because i don't understand why you would want to marry before 18...

2006-06-01 [†Sweets†]: im not saying that i do, im saying that i cant get married AFTER im 18 with out my parents approvel

2006-06-01 [Soul Assassin]: unless you move away and decide that you're an adult and can do as you wish with or without your parents ok on it

2006-06-01 [†Sweets†]: i know, but i still need to move first

2006-06-01 [Dhom]: lol. I can't wait to move out. I hate where I live.

2006-06-01 [†Sweets†]: me either i want to go to ny

2006-06-01 [Dhom]: Yeah I'm heading to Ireland..... green,cold, beer.. it's all there. Or I'll move to NZ....It's really pretty

2006-06-01 [†Sweets†]: i want to retire to nz

2006-06-02 [Dhom]: lol. Yeah that would be good. went hiking there last yeah in the south. It's so nice. Plus I'm a lord of the Rings fan so I fitted in. I don''t think I'll settle down much before that though. I hate staying in one place

2006-06-02 [†Sweets†]: i hate you

2006-06-02 [Dhom]: because?

2006-06-02 [†Sweets†]: youve BEEN to nz!

2006-06-02 [Dhom]: yeah I guess that's pretty good.

2006-06-02 [†Sweets†]: >:Þ

2006-06-02 [Soul Assassin]: i've got friends w. a house and horses and stuff in both nz and australia

2006-06-02 [sweetkiss]: horses I love horses..

2006-06-02 [Soul Assassin]: yeap they race 'em

2006-06-02 [†Sweets†]: my dad works with a guy who lets me ride his horses

2006-06-02 [Soul Assassin]: lucky. my sister has horses but she's in iceland now so they're leased out

2006-06-02 [†Sweets†]: .....i only see my dad once a year

2006-06-02 [sweetkiss]: oo

2006-06-02 [†Sweets†]: he lives down south, so i stay with him during the summer, im leaving on saturday

2006-06-02 [Soul Assassin]: hows the weather down there?

2006-06-06 [†Sweets†]: at the moment its hot

2006-06-07 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: i feel like dying... anyone out there to talk to?

2006-06-07 [Soul Assassin]: i'm here

2006-06-07 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: love just fuckin sucks... ive been in love with this kid for a long time now... but of coarse... he has a gf... me and him used to have a -thing-... but then we started fighting and he told me he didnt love me anymore... then time passed and we became bestest friends again.... and the other day he told me he stilled loved me... but i wish he hadnt... because he loves his gf more... and im just.. there... and i always get the feeling.. i dont know... im just seriously in love with him... and i cant get over him... and its like my heart just keeps getting broken... but if i try to get over him... and stop talking to him... i will loose one of the few things keeping me alive and my best friend

2006-06-07 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: i know it seems kinda... petty... like a "little" problem... but its a big problem for me. Ive been thru so much shit, and hes the only one nowadays that can make me happy... but as much as he creates me, in turn hes destroying me. i dont know. it just sucks.

2006-06-07 [Soul Assassin]: hmmm yes agreed, love can suck. i'd say either you take the scraps he's feeding you or you attempt to find someone else that can love you. the way i see it he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. if you want to get over him sometimes the best way is to take a prolonged break in which you keep busy and expose yourself to other ppl and new things. i wouldn't suggest completely ditching him as a friend but perhaps just seperating yourself for some time.

2006-06-07 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: i dont know how i would like... live... he knows all my problems, secrets... everything :(

2006-06-07 [princess_ of _darkness]: my boy friends has been acting really diff. and now he wont say he loves me n e more and he is always chatting with my best friend and flirting with tons of other girls... what should i do....

2006-06-07 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: i think thats a sign he... wants to break up with you but cant find it in him to break your heart? i dont know, maybe im wrong, but i would confront him and ask him whats up, and ask him if he loves you anymore... although that may shatter your heart... like it did mine.

2006-06-07 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: probably the first one to say this,but my problem is friends.I like,only have internet friendsThey mean so much to me!The ones that i have now at my school,i call them "friends",suck.they're never there for me.Ignore me.When I cry,act as if nothing's happening.Most i cant get hold of!Im so broken..Cus i've lost so many over the years!And I wanna immigrate to England,where most of my friends are.But my family will persuade me to stay and go to youths and try make new friends somehow.Problem is,I dunno how.And,no guy likes me.Im so young,but,2 years ago,i met this guy.We havent spoken 4ages,cus he neva comes on.I rly like him..But.anyway.I need friends><I jus want sum1 to care

2006-06-07 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: someone does care... your internet friends care... making friends isnt all that hard... you just have to find the people that you have most in common with... but i dont know.. ive never personally been in that type of situation... although i do have more internet friends then real life friends... i normally just stick to a small group of good friends at school, rather then a network of not-so-close friends... i dont know if that helps you...

2006-06-07 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: It kinda does. I just want friends in Cape town.(Where i live). But i dunno how. Basically every1 i know on the internet has best friends already. THEY do everything 2gether. I want sum1 like that. I've waited for 5 years..My 1st one was taken away by some bitch, who i'll hate for the rest of my life.I'll always hate her...All i want is sum1 to share everything with ;[

2006-06-07 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: i cant even imagine life without my best friends :( Soon you will find that -person- the one you automatically click with. Thats how i met my friends. Things will "click", the light will go on, sparks will fly, kinda like love, but not. Its that best-friend-forever feeling. and one day you will meet that person, dont loose hope ok? If you have aim/aol/msn you can get my s/n from my page talk to me on there if you want.

2006-06-07 [Soul Assassin]: i agree with shattered in that there are those ppl that you will find that "click" and the best way to find them is to do things you enjoy, smile (even if you dont' feel like it), and reach out to the ppl around you. to be honest some of my closest friends i've never met due to them living thousands of miles away and only chatting on the internet. however i too have the group i call "friends"(aka those that don't give a shit about you but prove a nice distraction) here that i use to take my mind of my personal issues. i think it's rare to truely find a "best friend" and those ppl that do are extremely lucky ppl.

2006-06-07 [Soul Assassin]: and shattered... sometimes we have to learn to live without the people that know us the best. my "blood" sister just moved away and this is the first time in my life she hasn't been there...it's hard. and it hurts. but learning to reach out to new ppl can be a good experience. actually i've met some pretty cool ppl that way.

2006-06-07 [†Sweets†]: i like love, im engaged

2006-06-07 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: actually a few days ago.. i met this girl... and shes awesome... shes been helping me... cuz i want to be more religious and stuff... but yeah... sometimes friends wont come to you, you have to take the first step yourself

2006-06-07 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: congrats angel :)

2006-06-07 [†Sweets†]: thanks..... if none of your friends will help you, maybe you need new friends

2006-06-07 [Soul Assassin]: yeap a thought. though i don't recomend completely burning your bridges if you do decided to move on

2006-06-07 [Dhom]: Yeah I agree with Soul. Just be a little distance if it doesn't seem to working out.

2006-06-08 [†Sweets†]: i didnt mean replace them, just add on to them

2006-06-08 [Soul Assassin]: yeah i figured. i decided that i just wanted to see bridges burn....bad choice.

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Wow. thanks. Its just so..hard for me..Cus I really clicked with a girl...When i was 4 years old. we were BESTEST friends. i cant explain it...Then some hoe took her;[ I dound a really cool girl at school. we've been buddies for a while. We do click, i jus dunno if we're that close...She has a best frend,but they always fight.And she says she prefers me to her..And another girl.They both rock..I hope it's gonna be a great relationship

2006-06-09 [Soul Assassin]: i'm glad you have some options and best of luck :D

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Thank you^^ I'll need it!

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: yes, yes you do

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Hehe. So am I the latest trouble? o.O

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: i have a new one

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Okay. Talk =] Im all ears.

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: ok, thanks

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: You're so welcome.^^;

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: im engaged to my boyfriend, his name is kelly. and he hates his ex gf, crystal, but im friends with her, but she and jj, kelly's best freind keep telling me shit that anit ture, like he's cheating on me and stuff, and they tell me the stuff when i cant ask him about it because he's grounded or out of town or something. crystal just told me that she saw jj, jj's gf kelly, and kelly's little brothers gf, the town slut, driving around togeather a while ago, and they were doing shit, i cant cheek because kelly is camping with scouts

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Oh my gosh...Well, if Kelly IS cheating on you, he most probably wouldnt have asked you to marry him. If he is, he should tell u himself! And this might just be a rumour. Trying to get Kelly. :/

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: the first time someone told me that he cheated on me, he asked me to marry him the next night

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Girl, that

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: girl that what?

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Girl, that's a definite sign! Did he know? If he did, I would chat with him. And watch out: If he's nervous, or starts scratching himself, he's LYING. I know that. I think you should phone him now. And tell all the details.

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: ok, this happened about 2 months ago, i talked to him about it, in person, i know how he acts when he's lying, he runs his fingure over his thumb, but doesnt know he does it. but only i see it, and when i talked to him about it, he was holding both of my hands, and his finugre didnt move at all

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Oh. Well, don't hold his hand! You have to get the truth out of him.

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: no, he would still move his fungure, when he was dating crystal, if he lyied to her while holding her hands his figure would still move, he has to be moving when he's lying, its a subconutious thing with him. i know that he hasnt been cheating on me, my point is that so called freinds of ours are trying to breake us up

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: OH, okay...Well, you have to have a chat with your friend.

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: which friend? crystal?

2006-06-09 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Yes, if she's the one making stories up.

2006-06-09 [†Sweets†]: her and jj

2006-06-09 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: i say you tell her to stop it, tell her you dont beliebe her stupid stories and shes never going to break you guys up. maybe she still wants him and is jealous of you, if i were you i would tell her to stop.

2006-06-09 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: *believe

2006-06-10 [sweetkiss]: mm

2006-06-11 [Soul Assassin]: ummm i would suggest not being aggressive about it because she'll just get defensive and "go under cover" with all her lies. but i would certainly make clear that you don't want to hear any more about it

2006-06-11 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Yeh. i guess the only way is by talking openly to her, tell her to stop all this crap..she's never gonna get him!

2006-06-11 [†Sweets†]: thanks

2006-06-12 [sweetkiss]: I'm with them

2006-06-16 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Okay. Tell us how it goes.

2006-06-16 [sweetkiss]: yah please

2006-06-17 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: -Inside.My.Mind- heyy whenever any of you are bored... i was wonder if you could tell me what you think about my poems... pleeeeeeeeease

2006-06-17 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: *wondering

2006-06-17 [sweetkiss]: they r great

2006-06-17 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: thanks :)

2006-06-18 [Dhom]: I like Untitled..

2006-06-19 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: My fxcking hell. They are the greatest poems. It SO relates to me! Just not the love...I think they are fantastically awsomer than fantabulisticness ^^;

2006-06-19 [†Sweets†]: i love them, but she knows that, i asked her about it and she compltely changed her stroy, said that she saw them two weeks ago, sarah wasnt there and jj was driving!

2006-06-19 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Lol. But they are awsome =D

2006-06-19 [†Sweets†]: yeps

2006-06-19 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: aww thanx u guys...

2006-06-19 [Soul Assassin]: so isn't it obvious that she was lying and has been lying and isnt going to stop?

2006-06-19 [†Sweets†]: want to know who she is on here?

2006-06-19 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: sure

2006-06-20 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Yipp.

2006-06-21 [†Sweets†]: [Lady Lucifer] have fun

2006-06-23 [.Toxic Valentine.]: i need help ppl - plz - im on the edge

2006-06-23 [Nickstur;; ISGONE.]: Oh my gosh, what happened?

2006-06-23 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: what happened?

2006-06-28 [sweetkiss]: babe tell us

2006-06-29 [†Sweets†]: yes, tell now

2006-06-29 [sweetkiss]: hey angels

2006-06-29 [†Sweets†]: hi! sorry ive been off for so long, im sick

2006-06-29 [sweetkiss]: it's kk

2006-06-29 [†Sweets†]: oh good

2006-06-29 [sweetkiss]: lol

2006-06-29 [Dhom]: I'm tired of being a door mat....

2006-06-29 [sweetkiss]: what r u talking about??

2006-06-29 [Dhom]: You know the friends who always come back when they're lives become crap but aren't there when you need them?

2006-06-29 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: yeah, its sad, but some of my friends are like that, and i just keep going along helping them out

2006-06-29 [Dhom]: Yeah well I'm tired of it. It gets to much when your just dropped agin. I feel humilated and so angry. mostly at myself.

2006-06-29 [sweetkiss]: oo

2006-06-29 [†Sweets†]: ....dont you have friends that are not like that?

2006-06-29 [Soul Assassin]: dhom....it happens to the best of us....but now you're...shall we say, certain, of their character...perhaps it would be in your best interest to find at least one or two friends who will be there

2006-06-30 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: i agree with soul.... or maybe you should tell your friends how you feel

2006-06-30 [Soul Assassin]: well that sorta goes w. out saying....one should always be at least somewhat open about how they feel w. there friends...

2006-06-30 [Dhom]: I am open with my friends and yes I do have friends who aren't complete train wrecks.....

2006-07-01 [Soul Assassin]: ummm all train wrecks aren't bad...i'm practically a walking wreck but i nvr ditch, ignore, or abuse those i consider friends

2006-07-01 [sweetkiss]: i am 2.. do u know that love can be great for a day or so but then when sum1 finds out that u like ur ex everything goes all to hell. sorry I am in a weird mood right now.

2006-07-01 [Soul Assassin]: np. but ya. liking an ex can shut things down pretty damn fast .....

2006-07-03 [sweetkiss]: yah. but I have 1 problem on top of all of it

2006-07-03 [Soul Assassin]: ?

2006-07-03 [†Sweets†]: boo! *im not a ghost*

2006-07-03 [sweetkiss]: nvm.. i shouldn't have said any thing,, hey boo back

2006-07-03 [†Sweets†]: hey hey, sweet, you need to, and you know it

2006-07-03 [sweetkiss]: i know.. i am preg. and the father is going to the army reserve till he is 18 then the army.. what do i do? he wants me to kill it

2006-07-03 [†Sweets†]: dont you dare. unless its endangering your life to carring it to term, dont even think it. do your parents know?

2006-07-03 [sweetkiss]: fine i won't. and no and my dad thinks i am a vergin

2006-07-03 [†Sweets†]: does his parents?

2006-07-03 [sweetkiss]: no

2006-07-03 [†Sweets†]: what about your mom?

2006-07-03 [sweetkiss]: nope

2006-07-03 [Soul Assassin]: i would say. the most important question is if you carry the child to term are you fit to be a mother? be honest w. yourself, brutally honest. are you ready to take care of a child? provide for it? raise it to be the best possible human it could be? love it. etcetc. and the question of an abortion is completely up to you. if you decided one way or the other. be sure to research all your options from non-biased organizations or as close to that as you can. know the facts on both sides of keeping it or aborting it. if you do decide to keep it. it is crucial that you realize it is a decision that will effect not only your life but that of your CHILD. if you don't think your capable of raising

2006-07-03 [Soul Assassin]: the child in a supportive and loving environment or if you feel you are not ready, both of which are valid and equally possibilities, it is nothing to be ashamed of. but personally....from my view, unless you are able to raise a child in a stable loving environment without ruining your life and it's now is not the right time to have it. are you willing to give up your life for it? because you will have to give up years and years of your life from now on

2006-07-03 [†Sweets†]: i love you sweets, but i dont think your ready to be a mom, and i think you should put it up for adoption. your 13, you refuse to tell your parents the dads leaving, and your not even seeing him anymore, and he doesnt know about the child, your not ready

2006-07-04 [sweetkiss]: kk i may not be bu ti lost it this morning and geuss what I decided to fuck him again btu geuss what.. we were swimming and he had no condom... a privet beach were no 1 else was so he wanted ot fuck he decidee to com inside me and mean to.. well he sorda didn't mean to. so we've been talking and i told him there is no way i can b. geuss what.. u can get preg. the min. u loss a child aperently.. i don't want to tell him.. i love him and want him to live his life up to it's fullist w/o problems.. so i migh tell him after he signs up..??? and I am not ready but i can not kill it perpuslly or give it up i would die b4 i coul ddo that.. HELP??

2006-07-04 [†Sweets†]: just remember what i told you last night

2006-07-05 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: wait... you lost the first baby... and now are you sure your pregnant again? and maybe you should find out for sure if your pregnant first, then tell your mother, if your 13 then you need to tell someone, sorry, you might be mature for your age, i dont know, but you definately need to tell a close relative and get help (if your definately preg.)

2006-07-05 [Dhom]: Ok...you said you would die before you could give it up for adoption or termination. What about the actual kid? Are you going to be able to give it everything that it needs? Are going to able to support it? Thirteen, fourteen, whatever...but your gonna have to deal with being responsible for another human being. Every decision you make will affect it. If you can honestly believe you can handle getting a decent paying job whilst your still a teen well keep the kid. But that's really hard on the child and on you.... In the end you really have to think about the baby.. Not the father, not your parents, not even to an extent you.

2006-07-05 [Dhom]: If your not ready... you might screw your life up and this child's life as well...It would be the hardest thing you'll ever have to do putting up for adoption but it could be whats really fair..

2006-07-05 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: sometimes adoption is for the best... but imagine how many other kids are up for adoption... i honestly think it would be best to go to one of your guardians.

2006-07-05 [Stray Kitty]: Yeah. I'm adopted.My birth parents put me up for adoption because they were both divorced and had children from the other marriages. They didn't want to raise a child in an environment like that. I'm very grateful that they did what they did. I don't remember my birth family at all. The only family I know is the one who raised me. I have a very stable home life and I'm happy. My parents chose to adopt because niethe of them could have a child. The adoption made them very happy. I think it was for the best. In this case you really have to think about the child.

2006-07-05 [sweetkiss]: kk, yes i know, i will be able to and.... erg.. can we move to a new subject PLEASE.. i hate talk ing about me... *lies on bed* i donno what i'll do if i am. and i will member what u told me the other night [†Sweets†] but either way can we get of the subject of me I am not a great person, and the subject was spost to be short and simple so... anywho........................................ Zup?

2006-07-05 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: with me... same shit different day... heart broken fucking walking disaster me

2006-07-05 [Soul Assassin]: i think the only difference between ppl w. problems and ppl "without" them is that the ppl without them just deal w. the original situation better....but then there;s that "shit happens" catagory that would probably shoot down that theory

2006-07-05 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: yeah... i guess i fucked up somewhere along the way, i just dont know where yet, because everything that seems to happen to me i think back... and theres not much i could do to change it, sometimes there is... and sometimes there isnt... maybe the people without them just dont have much bad shit happen to them. It seems like the people around me are soo happy... and i dont want to be the one shedding black light on the fun. so i just bottle this shit up... maybe thats where i went wrong... i dont know... but it feels good to talk about it here

2006-07-05 [†Sweets†]: guess what?!?! some chick on here (who lives about 94305739487 miles away) told me she saw my boy cheating on me! it was so funny!!!

2006-07-06 [x.shattered hope.Xx]: wow lol what a loser

2006-07-06 [sweetkiss]: how???